I moved to New York after college and continued to tear through men with abandon. I'm proud that I had a lot of not so great relationships with men of varied ethnicities and didn't become bitter and jaded.That being said, I still ended up feeling like I was constantly defending and explaining my choices to overly enthused white women, annoyed Black men, judgmental Black women and fetishizing white men. Let's just say I've been surprised about how UNTRUE it is.

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Even a childhood friend remarked very flippantly, "Oh, Nia only dates white guys," when she knew very well that wasn't true.

We also seem to be living in a time when the media is very concerned for us poor Black women.

So many of my classmates mocked Black culture, defended the Georgia state flag and compared slavery to the potato famine that I didn't exactly feel like interracial dating was an option. I mean, how could I not eventually date a white guy? Along with Sociology, it was practically a required course.

In that blissful 4 years, I hooked up, dated and fell in love without a care in the world.

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I gave him a massive hickey, which I found pretty amusing, and I figured it was just an "experience." Something I'd write about in my journal, the one with Maya Angelou's picture on the cover.

I attended a posh mostly Catholic prep school in the suburbs of Atlanta. At lot of us took MARTA (the public transportation system) home.

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I'm not the kind of chick who needs to go on and on about the size of a man's penis and those that do get an eyebrow raise from me. Do you really want to know if what they say is true?